relational intuition

it’s helpful to know one’s place
in any family-style community
to know how and where you belong
to be loved into responsible joy of returning love

why rebel against the obvious good fit?

unrealistic expectations turn gentle contentment
into unnatural tantrums against healthy constraints

21 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. purplepeninportland's avatar purplepeninportland
    May 18, 2024 @ 19:22:11

    So well said, Lynn!

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  2. SelmaMartin's avatar SelmaMartin
    May 17, 2024 @ 09:58:39

    true true true. I agree here. Thanks Lynn.

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  3. paeansunplugged's avatar paeansunplugged
    May 15, 2024 @ 13:43:15

    Such wise words, Lynn.

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  4. Carol C's avatar Carol C
    May 14, 2024 @ 18:04:07

    Indeed, Lynn!

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  5. merrildsmith's avatar merrildsmith
    May 14, 2024 @ 12:42:13

    I love the title, and it’s great if someone recognizes the fit. (Not so great if someone is forced into one.)

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  6. Dora's avatar dorahak
    May 14, 2024 @ 11:24:28

    Stellar wisdom, Lynn, so needed for contentment. Loved this line, which to me holds the key: “to be loved into responsible joy of returning love.” Can’t be said any better than that.

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  7. Laura Bloomsbury's avatar Laura Bloomsbury
    May 14, 2024 @ 03:42:23

    such truth Lynn – every one a peg that has a place to fit the pattern

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  8. Grace's avatar Grace
    May 13, 2024 @ 20:10:52

    It would be ideal and nice to have that good fit in the community.

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  9. whimsygizmo's avatar whimsygizmo
    May 13, 2024 @ 18:23:05

    I like the unique, almost clinical feel of this, starting with your excellent title.

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  10. Gillena Cox's avatar Gillena Cox
    May 13, 2024 @ 16:27:20

    Everyone should have such a place

    much♡love

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